Saturday, March 24, 2018

In The Beginning

It has been almost a year since my diagnosis with Stage IIIC-2 Grade 3 endometrial serous carcinoma.  I received the news on a Friday, over the telephone.

"It's very important you don't skip your ultrasound appointment on Tuesday.  We have the results of your PAP smear; they indicate adenocarcinoma."

I was in shock.  Could a PAP exam actually diagnose cancer?  Were they telling me I had cancer?  I asked the question but received no concrete answer.  Instead, they emailed the results of the smear to me.  I did indeed have endometrial cancer.

Don't you just love to receive news like that on a Friday when Monday seems years away?  There was no medical personnel available for questions.  I wouldn't have known what to ask, anyway, I was so numb.  I couldn't even think straight. 

I went to the ultrasound appointment.  There was thickening to my endometrial lining.  The next thing that happened was a biopsy, and after that, everything was a blur.  Oncology consult, surgery, chemotherapy, radiation. How odd that, while everything happened so fast, the time also dragged like Marley's chains.

This blog is not medical advice.  It is a guide, more or less, to help the chemo patient and family to include friends.  I hope that it will be of use to someone.